Thoughts of the Days..

Why do some always puts the blame on others when they fail to see that actually the problem is with themselves?

Why do some don't seem to get the idea of you reap what you sow? If this is the attitude you shown others, you must be prepared to get the same attitude back on you.

Why do some fail to find out the reasons of what is happening first before one starts putting blame on an innocent? It takes two hands to clap.

Why do some think that they deserve respect from others when they themselves are not giving respect to people?

Why do some only see what is beneficial to them and not think for the big picture?

Some thoughts that i have recently gain-ed or seen happening around me.. Like i said before and always emphasized, nobody's perfect. Don't come telling me you're nobody becoz i'm serious in these thoughts.

Think for the big picture people. If you want people to think for you, you must first prove to them that you are worth them sacrificing the other decision that seems to be a better choice. If you could provide them with the assurance, i'm sure they will be more thoughtful.

What is a role model? A person who you look-ed up to and wish you would be like him/her someday? Nobody's perfect. Grow up and stop thinking that there is a perfect example out there for you to follow or absorb some of their characteristics. Everyone has a hidden self. Maybe you can try. But one can never be the same. Live ones own life. One have a mind of your own. Nobody can control how one want to behave. One don't have to follow anyone to be somebody. You are You. Sometimes one just think that one had followed the wrong one. But have oneself stop and think? One ain't that great in other people's impression either. One just can't please everybody.

Do not look at things one-sided. It always take two sides to make something works. Listening to one side of the story doesn't always mean it really happened in that way. Look in to the bottom of the matters and there are sure more story to it. The person who seems to be leading on the surface doesn't have to be the one who starts everything. Sometimes the innocent person in everybody's eyes isn't that pure and simple afterall.

Like i said, One Reap What One Sow and Nobody's Perfect.

My Thoughts of the Days. Have you got any lately?